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Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Missing

Since I cannot chase,
the conclusion drawn
is that you can fix what is broken,
but you can't fix what is gone.

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Losing Friends

A couple of people I care about very much are, for now and perhaps forever, out of my life. Both losses, oddly enough, happened recently. One woman I have known over two and a half years, and the other for only a month or so. It is some consolation that these diverging of paths was not actually because of anything I did, or any failure of character or action, but because of personal issues over which I have no control, understanding, or say. I trust that each has good reasons for the choices and life decisions she has made.

While their loss pains me, there is also a part of me that is starting to feel somewhat liberated. There is an energy – or at least a spark of motivation – that arises from the ashes of letting go of trying to nurture a connection that isn’t, for whatever reason, working. Wrong person, wrong time, whatever. And while I do certainly hope that I can be friends with these women again someday, this moment of forced clarity has given me the impetus to move on emotionally and to begin to invest in other aspects of my life that are lacking and need attending.

What I struggle with now is that just at the time in my life when such friendships have become precious to me, and I have seen the need to expand and develop my social connections, I find myself somewhat isolated by the loss of these dear people and the resulting down time I need for healing and reflection. As a result, I must find new ways to connect with people, and perhaps find a friend and/or lover from who it is the right time and place, and for whom I am the right man.

It is the season of thanks, and I am thankful for, as odd as it sounds, a wonderful and amazing brain chemistry and the many great teachers who helped me forge an attitude and life view that always, without fail, leads me to health, balance, and peace. And I am thankful for those friends, near and far, with whom I am not merely an tourist in their hearts, but who have granted me honorary citizenship. Thank you!

Friday, September 28, 2012

Win-Win or Lose-Lose

Relationships are either win-win or lose-lose. If we try to win by cheating, or with a lie, we may think we're on top for a time, but in the end we both lose.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Philosopher Brute

Anthropologists wonder whether sapiens
destroyed or bred neanderthalensis to extinction,
and one glance at my brow, as it happens,
provides a conclusive answer to the question.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Why I Love

I am an artist,
I look at you and draw inspiration;
you are why I create.

I am an athlete,
I look at you and draw strength;
you are why I push.

I am a soldier,
I look at you and draw courage;
you are why I fight.

I am a worker,
I look at you and draw meaning;
you are why I toil.

I am a man,
I look at you and draw purpose;
you are why I love.

Friday, August 10, 2012

Virus and the Cure

You are the virus and the cure,
raging relentless in my veins,
burning hot and pure.

You are the heat and cold,
swirling sensations of pleasure and pain;
I see white. Crimson. Gold.

You are the blessing and the curse,
and I can't say which of these is better,
and which of them is worse.

Sunday, August 5, 2012

My Love is a Prisoner

My love is a prisoner,
shackled in fear.
She's whipped
with shame,
and tortured
with blame.

Though my love is a prisoner
I ache to hold near,
I’ve no power
to set her free,
for in her dear hand
she holds the key.

Friday, August 3, 2012

Unbidden

The busy days,
nor the social nights,
the anger of the cruel,
nor the comfort of the kind,
can long keep thoughts of you
rising, unbidden, to my mind.

Monday, July 9, 2012

Pleasure and Happiness

Pleasure comes from the outside; happiness from the inside. Do not be surprised if pleasure does not bring you happiness.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012